Published in Hello, Love·PinnedMember-onlyWhat to Do When the Fear of Losing Her Becomes StrongerOh! Men can be ignorant. — The fear of losing her might sometimes be the beginning of true wisdom. The fear of loss is well-buttressed and common in today’s world. These days, it’s almost a nonnegotiable constant in love. Ordinarily, enforcing loss should never be utilized deliberately, but sadly it might be the only spectrum to…Women5 min readWomen5 min read
Published in Feedium·1 day agoMember-onlyMedium Wishes I Would Pay a Million to See Come to PassJokes! But I could pay a thousand to fall into this abyss. — Not that I really know the meaning of the word ‘abyss’, but it just feels right to qualify the endless positive thoughts I get from the imaginary thoughts about Medium. Without a doubt, here is superb. Medium is a great platform. If, by chance, this happens to be your second…Medium3 min readMedium3 min read
Published in Be Nigerian·2 days agoMember-onlyHow do Cruel People Maintain Family Love?Kidnappers! Rapists! Thieves! And all shades of wrong. — Don’t be surprised or marveled by my imaginary stat that says that cruel people have the best families. It did put my head in a spiral wheel. The fact is that I wore the thoughts like a fanny pack for many days. Why is love that deceiving, non-judgemental and loose? …Love4 min readLove4 min read
Published in New Writers Welcome·4 days agoMember-onlyTimes When Life Happens to All WritersCan we reach common ground? — Do you agree life is really about creating yourself? Does the ball really lie in your court at all times? Is there a possibility that you can control everything? No one knows for sure because we all deliberate and react to things differently. But we sure can be alike in…Writer4 min readWriter4 min read
Published in Feedium·Mar 23Member-onlyWhen Is It Right to Close the Medium Curtain?Take away the Medium buzz and come ride with me on this train. — Do you have kids?… do you have a family that needs your time? If you quickly say yes to those questions, you’ll have no issues being optimistic about closing the Medium Curtain. Also, most writers who see the view above on most days will quickly agree to the idea of…Writer3 min readWriter3 min read
Published in New Writers Welcome·Mar 20Member-onlyLife Treats You Differently after Publishing Your 300th StoryAre you there yet? — One toxic belief I have kept for a while is that ‘with every ounce of success comes even more depression and self-doubt’. Now I’m only 34 stories from my 300th published story on Medium, and it feels like the sky is falling apart in the crumbles of my name. Is…Medium2 min readMedium2 min read
Published in Reciprocal·Mar 10Member-onlyWomen’s Day Should Be Celebrated a Lot LessWait!…What!…Who said that? — Once! A shimmer of hope was brought to the limelight. My first experience of a woman’s celebration day gave me a different view of life as I knew it. It was March 8, 2014. My birthday was fast approaching. I would soon be at the significant eighteen years. But I…Women5 min readWomen5 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Mar 10Member-onlyTreating Uncertainty for People in Three Simple WaysI can’t imagine myself as a mountain climber. I haven’t been to the states but I might never try hiking. Don’t misread me just yet. I say all of this because I have a short threshold for certainty. I believe a thousand and one results can come from a single…Life3 min readLife3 min read
Published in What Is Love To You?·Mar 7Member-onlyThese 4 Things Changed My Status As a Faithful ManIt’s time to fly the complicated flag — I’m not as handsome as the player in the picture above, but trust me, we share the same grin right now. I got mine after the 4 things that changed my status as a faithful man. A few years ago, I would have purged at the view of this article’s…Men5 min readMen5 min read
Published in Be Nigerian·Mar 4Member-onlyWhat Do You See When You Imagine your Older Self?I feel young, even if I am over 90. — Little mama! Hey love! Baby boy! In a twinkle of an eye, all these caring phrases will quickly turn into a granny, Papi, and all words meant for the old. Just before I lost my grandma, I once asked her how it felt to be old. All she says was…Time4 min readTime4 min read